Monday, 23 December 2013
Tuesday, 3 December 2013
Staff Picnic
Our Team's Day Out
30th of November 2013 was a long awaited and a welcome break
for our team of staff. Social Work is almost a full time and dedicated job. Our
team needed a break and the responsibilities were handed over for a day to some
of our earlier and experienced staff and we picnicked to Thripparappu, Thottil
Palam and Kanyakumari. It was indeed a day of fun, enjoyment and togetherness
for our team of twenty staff. Some snaps are seen below:
Sunday, 1 December 2013
Why can't we stop it
Why can’t We Stop it?
Seven year old girl child Adithi was denied food and beaten
to death by her father and step mother at Calicut. The case was charge
sheeted 18th July. Five Year old Shafeek from Kattappana, Kerala was at
death bed due to continued torture by his father Shereef and step mother
Aleesha for more than a year. At Palakkad, a 14 year old girl has been
repeatedly abused by her step mother’s relative and her own father. The news of
the same arrived on July 21st. On October 28th, Trivandrum CHILDLINE has intervened and
rescued a nine year old child from Nedumangad who has been sexually abused by
her step father. In Alakode (Kannur district), the case of a girl who had been
sexually abused for the past six years by her parents and 5 others has come to
light a few days ago. She was forced into prostitution for money. In
Trivandrum a girl’s hand was fractured because of violence from father after
drinking, last week. Such story goes on every day.
As per statistics from the State Crime Bureau, this year till
March there have been 159 incidents of rape against children, 10 cases of
murder, 33 cases of kidnapping and abduction. Other cases against children are
270. Till March this year, about 480 cases of crime against children have been
recorded in the State of Kerala.
WHY SO? WHY THE MADNESS AGAINST INNOCENT CHILDREN?
This is the question asked by people everywhere. From our
experience of dealing with cases of children, we have the following
observations to make.
1. Increasing number of family Breakups: Kerala is named the divorce capital of Asia with highest
number of divorces. The ultimate sufferer of a divorce is always the child. The
child has to bear up with the mental tensions created by the quarreling of
parents, will have to adjust to step parents who will often show discrimination
towards children not their own.
2. Working Parents: In vast number of families both parents
are working to support the family and children often move from tuition – school
– tuition routine without possibility for interaction with the parents. The
parents think that providing provisions and satisfying the material needs of
children are sufficient. There is ever increasing mental tension among children
due to the fact that they are unable to feel the love and care of parents. Such
children’s mental health suffer and they become future misfit parents of the
society.
3. Deteriorating Mental Health of the Society: Studying the cases of last four months intervened by
CHILDLINE, we find that one of the biggest problems faced by children in
families is due to deteriorating mental health of parents or siblings. In our
State, there are very good hospitals and treatments for all physical illnesses
but the all important mental health issues of people are often not treated and
the repercussion of the same is much more long lasting and damaging than that
of physical sicknesses. Only those with personality disorders and psychological
illnesses can unleash such mindless violence towards innocent children.
4. Uncontrolled onslaught of and access to media: There is a generation gap between parents and
children especially in the case of usage of technological devices such as
mobile, T.V and other media accessories (a digital divide). This leads to
unwanted usage of the same without the knowledge of parents especially among
the lower middle class and the poorer sections of society. There is bombardment
of false information and sexually explicit content. Access to sexually explicit
contents among children is much more than in the previous generation. From
childhood onward children are exposed to violence and sex in movies, video
games etc. Children become unable to distinguish between real world and the
virtual world. When they grow up this turns into abnormalities. Previous
generation’s abused kids are sure to turn into abusers in the present time. The
present children need to be guided well to form sane future parents.
5. Alcoholism and Drug Abuse: Kerala society consumes highest amount liquor
every year. Drunkards and Drug addicts cannot behave normally. Domestic
violence and victimization of children take place due to increased alcoholism
prevalent in the present Kerala Society. Children of alcoholic parents follow
the example and there are cases of use of alcohol even among upper primary
school children.
6. Laxity in implementation of Laws: India has laws to provide care and protection for
children. Many of these laws are based on international standards and the
latest law to stop sexual violence against children is also good. Our Problem
is the proper implementation of the same, the lack of awareness of the laws
among enforcement and implementing agencies and the fact that the systems
provided in the laws have not been set up. Because of this the accused often
go unpunished and victim does not get immediate justice and justice delayed is
justice denied.
How to STOP It?
1.
Care for children of litigating parents
As soon as
family problems crop up the children will be pulled to their side by each
parent and constant fights and tensions will negatively affect the mental
health of children. As soon as the divorce litigation process commences there
should be an intervention to separate the children from the parents with
possibility to interact with both parents separately. Once the process is
completed, though not the best situation, the children can be restored to the either
father or mother as per court orders with possibility to meet the other parent
occasionally. This will protect children from the trauma of constant quarrel
and consistent persuasion to join sides and a healthy relation can be
maintained with both parents separately.
2. Caring Teachers:
Schools need
to take the role of parents considering the present social situation of Kerala.
Mere syllabus based education needs to be changed to a life oriented
education. The mental, psychological,
behavioral issues of children needs to be spotted by the teachers and life
skills and mentoring should be provided by teachers to create a healthy student
population. For this, a drastic change in curriculum with proper training to
teachers is required. The fact that the children are in school for most part of
the day should be used by teachers to provide integral education to children.
Parent teacher communication and involving parents and letting them know the
child’s needs and improvement is important. A file for each child recording
his/her progress in all the aspects of life is a must. A new teacher must study
the file and know the child before interacting with a particular student.
3. Psychological Health:
Children with
behavioral or psychological issues should be assessed by a clinical
psychologist in schools and by involving the parents. Proper guidance and
medical assistance should be provided to those who require it. When the child
grows with the knowledge of his problem and ways to deal with it, he/she can
grow into maturity knowing full well how to handle him/her. This will make him/her
to adjust to a family life in the future. Lack of knowledge of psychological
issues produce family issues and the children too will grow up retarded.
4. Media Education and
laws:
Proper Media
education and filtered and monitored media access should be provided to
children. Most of the movies that children watch in TVs and Movie houses are
unfit for them. Children who are over exposed to violence and sex in TV
programmes, Video Games, and Cartoons turn out to be delinquent as they will form
a conscience which is indifferent to feelings as the impressions in small age
retain in the mind without much rational thinking. Very interesting and age
appropriate media access should be provided to children. For this proper law
making banning age inappropriate materials to children is necessary. New
educative and engaging video games can be created using advanced technology. The
digital divide can be overcome through education in schools and also training
for parents in schools.
5. Preventive Education:
Alcoholism
and drug abuse needs to be controlled among children. For this proper awareness
classes and monitoring in the school campus is a necessity. Proper observation
of children in classes with the help of child rights clubs formed in classes
can prevent such issues. Children themselves can monitor and identify children
who need help for overcoming such issues.
6. Laws for Children:
Proper
implementation of law and some amended and new laws to protect children in
Kerala are the need of the hour. Special Juvenile Police Units, a requirement
under JJ act have not been established in Kerala. The child Rights Commission
is not fully functional in Kerala. The
Juvenile Justice act though provides many protections for children there are
still some loop holes. Children who are physically abused have very little
respite in the JJ Act. Maximum punishment as per section 23 for a physical
abuse is six months. Though we can argue that there is IPC, there are still
problems. Children are defenseless and vulnerable unlike adults. IPC would
consider children below 7 as ‘doli incapax’ (incapable of committing a crime)
and a crime against such a child does not require to consider the principle of
natural justice ie; ‘hear the other party’ and hence needs to be treated at a
much graver level.
In order to
reduce the juvenile crime rates it is important to sustain the children in
School till they complete the age of 18. As the financial status of families in
Kerala is better compared to that of other states, we should ban all child
labour up to 18 years. Free and compulsory education of children up to 18
years, banning of all child labour until 18 years and special courts for
immediate justice to children are important considerations the state must look
into. For this a new law is required.
Let us join
hands for a child friendly Kerala where their rights are protected and they can
grow in responsible freedom!
Thursday, 28 November 2013
YaR Day
YaR Day Celebration
As part of the YaR (Young at Risk) Day celebrations, Don Bosco Veedu Society
Trivandrum organised a half day Seminar
on the theme “Protect Children from
Sexual offences” at Don Bosco Centre, Manacaud on 26th
November, 2013. The participants for the
seminar were Teachers and Counselors’ from high schools of Trivandrum
educational district.
The seminar was divided into three sessions.
Session One
The first session dealt on The
Protection of Children from Sexual Offences Act (POCSO 2012) and it was
handled by Mr Jobi, Life Skill Education Coordinator and CHILDLINE, Team
Member. He pointed out that though the Act is there, there is a need to act for
the children to protect them from sexual Abuses. He explained all the sections
in POCSO Act in a clear and precise manner.
Session Two
The second session consisted of a group discussion
led by Sri Manuel George, senior staff of Don Bosco Veedu Society. The Participants were divided into six groups
and provided with paper cuttings of one sexual abuse case each. Participants
were to discuss the case and provide suggestions for three issues namely the
reason for the happening, what could have been done to avoid it and what could
be done when the worst has happened to the child to support him/her. Each group leader presented their findings to
all the participants.
Session Three
Fr. P D Thomas, Director Don Bosco led the final session of the
seminar with the theme “Prevention is
better than Cure”. Sexual Abuse can be prevented if teachers maintain a
strong positive relationship with the students. The teacher plays a vital role in the growth and development
of the child. It is also the responsibility of the teacher to ensure that
his/her students study and grow-up in an environment that is free from abuse,
exploitation and violence. Teachers can ensure this by taking small steps, like
establishing a special bond with their students so that they do not hesitate to
discuss their problems and concerns with them. Preventive Education, Why children don’t tell about abuse, When children tell – What to
do?, Symptoms of Sexual Abuse among children and reporting abuse were the
topics handled by him.
The seminar ended with vote of
thanks by Sri. Manuel George, the Coordinator of the Seminar. The seminar ended
with lunch for all.
Sunday, 20 October 2013
Into
a career in six months!
The third batch of
Hospitality Trainees of DB Tech has graduated after three months of intensive
training at Don Bosco Veedu Skill Training Centre at Manacaud.
The DB Tech programme
is a short term (3 months) skill training programme conducted by us at Don
Bosco Veedu. The aim of the programme is to provide a skill and certify the
same to those youth of the Trivandrum district who are less educated (minimum
10th grade pass) and are from poor and vulnerable back grounds.
These youth often are not able to get into a career due to lack of education
and due to lack of certified skills.
Over 170 DB Tech
centres across India in collaboration with Accenture, Bosch, and Taj Group of
Hotels is providing a set of skills to these youngsters in a short span of
three months and another three months of practical training in leading companying
which will also absorb them into their system.
Our third batch of
Hospitality Management trainees graduated on the 15th September and
is undergoing practical training in different Taj Hotels and in other leading
hotels across Kerala. Two new batches in Hospitality and BPO are set to begin
soon.
It is heartening to
see many youth develop a career in a short span of time thanks to the concentrated
efforts of dedicated staff at Don Bosco Veedu Skill Training centre.
Saturday, 19 October 2013
Homeward Bound
Rohit, Anil, Vishal and Lakhan
had been with us now for more than one year and we have been trying to trace
their family during the past year. We tried many means but to no avail. Some of
the agencies in North India also helped us in the process. Some of them even
agreed to provide shelter to the children and put them up until their family is
traced. It is a better way because if the children remained longer with us,
they would forget their language and it would become all the more difficult to
trace their family later on. We located agencies that were ready to take care
of the children in areas close to the native places mentioned by children.
On 24th of September
2012, Mr. Ratheesh and Mr. Shiva, two staff members of Don Bosco accompanied
the children to Delhi, Maharashtra and Chittorgarh, Rajasthan. Anil and Vishal
were rehabilitated with Don Bosco Ashalayam, New Delhi. The Child Welfare
Committee there initiated the process of finding the parents. Lakhan was takent
o Chittorgarh CWC and temporarioly placed at a shelter home with follow up to
trace the family. Rohit was brought back as his family could not be traced.
Saturday, 12 October 2013
Saved from Hell-Home!
Vineesh
is a twelve year old boy and he hails from Valiathura, Trivandrum. For the past
three days he had been sleeping in a toilet in his neighbour’s house without
them knowing about it. Call came to CHILDLINE when he started taking meals from
his friend’s house continuously. When the good neighbour asked about the issue
at home, Vineesh spoke about it.
Vineesh
had been tied up by his mother because he left home to play with his friends.
He has a mother and a step father who is the younger brother of his father. The
stepfather and mother are ill treating him every day and making him do all the
household chores making him get up at 5 o’clock in the morning.
Call
came immediately to CHILDLINE and we rushed to the spot and rescued the child.
We took him to the nearest police station and Vineesh spoke at length about the
persecution he had to endure at home the marks of which are still visible.
Now
Vineesh is happy and is sheltered with our other children at Don Bosco Nivas.
We are looking out for a place to make him stay and continue his education
Sunday, 6 October 2013
From Empowerment to Emancipation
Seven
year old Seema was all ears at the child abuse awareness class conducted by our
‘Success for Success’(S4S) team (Our
team which provides life skill and child rights awareness for students, school
teachers, parents and other stake holders). Immediately after the class Seema
came running to one of our team members and told her about the ‘bad’ dealing of
her father towards her often after drinking. She herself said that she knows
what to do the next time when it happened.
On
our next visit to the school Seeema was found to be very happy and serene. We quizzed
her about her home situation. Seema explained to us that when her father made
advances towards her she asked him to keep off and told him that she would
inform the police and CHILDLINE if he tried ‘bad things’ on her. Her father got
a shock of his life and he even stopped drinking!
The
experience of Seema was indeed a boost for our team. We could behold the effect
of empowerment leading to emancipation. All the children in our schools across Kerala
require integral education covering all aspects of life. Life skills are as
important as daily lessons. A bookish learning can inform but not educate.
Education is bringing out the potentialities of a child to cope with life.
Education should empower and emancipate.
Sunday, 29 September 2013
Vinod
Vinod from
Haryana
Kochuveli RPF personnel called
to our helpline and informed about a child sitting at the premises of the
railway station very hungry, lean and tired. Our team immediately reached the
place and brought Vinod to Don Bosco Nivas. After giving him a bath we took him
to the hospital as he was weak and not eaten for days. He was unable to take in
food. He looked to be deaf and dumb and he was not speaking. At the hospital
when the nurses brought the needles he started talking and was very unwilling
to cooperate. Giving him tablets, we brought him back and provided shelter.
Slowly
he started taking in liquids and soft bread. He was mentally unstable. He said
that he had lost his parents and had no one to care for him. From the fact that
he was communicating in English we understood that he did not belong to the
street. He always refused to eat rice. With lots of persuasion we managed to
take his blood and conducted tests to make sure he did not have any serious
sickness.
After
three weeks Vinod improved his health and one day he revealed the actual
details of his whereabouts. He hailed from Haryana and was belonging to a well
to do family. “Though Vinod had some mental instability he never left home
before”, said his Father. They were searching all over and had given missing
complaint at the police stations in different states. The family was relieved
to receive Vinod and they flew back to Haryana with Vinod.
Vinod’s
story is one among 12 children we rescued in the past three weeks.
Tuesday, 17 September 2013
ONAM ALSO FOR THE DEPRIVED
Onam
at Don Bosco Veedu
24 youth of the DB Tech
programme of Hospitality Management at Don Bosco Veedu celebrated onam on 11th of September.
The group of trainees from different parts of Trivandrum is provided free
training in hospitality management with 100% placement opportunity in
collaboration with Taj Group of Hotels. The students who hae dropped out from
regular education and have completed 18 years are the target group of the
programme. Presently the third batch is under training and the present group is
active and learning well. The preparation of the programmes of onam celebration was befitting the
hospitality management trainees. The students performed well and also had
arranged the stage and sadhya (lunch) very
well. The group dispersed for onam holidays
Onam
at Don Bosco Nivas
The children in the shelter
home had a wonderful celebration of Onam which lasted almost three days! The
Christ Nagar School children gave our children an unforgettable onam. The children of 11th standard
from Christ Nagar School took our children out for onam shopping. They bought new dresses and other gift items for our
children on 12th September. On the 13th our children were
the guests at the onam celebration at
Christ Nagar School. All the children were provided onam gifts and onasadhya.
On 14th
September, We celebrated onam at our
centre. All the staff and children were present. The programme started at 11.30
with cultural programmes and a solemn onam
lunch. Fr. Francis Karackatt, the rector of the institution and Fr. Santhosh
were present during the celebration. The children were happy to perform
different programmes during the cultural events. The celebration continued
after lunch with variety games in which all children participated.
Onam
at Karimadom
On September 13th
at 4 pm all the Sthree Jyoti- self help group members, Tuition Children,
Sponsored children and those who attended the eye camp and were in need of
spectacles gathered at Karimadom Community hall for the onam celebration. Variety entertainment programmes from women and
children, Thumbi Thullal (Onam
special cultural event), and onam games were part of the programme.
The cultural events were followed by distribution of spectacles to all those
who required it. There were 24 glasses distributed freely. The Managing
Director of Babu Optical, Mr. Babu who sponsored the spectacles was present for
the onam celebration. The poor people
of Karimadom colony were thankful for the glasses that they received free of
cost. The onam celebration ended with
payasam (onam sweets) for all.
RAS
Rapid
Assessment Survey (RAS)
In
collaboration with YaR Netwok (Young at Risk Forum) and Don Bosco Research
Centre, Mumbai, Don Bosco Veedu Society is conducting a rapid assessment survey
to find the number of street children in Trivandrum. The area covered in the
survey consists of 100 wards under the Corporation of Trivandrum city. The
survey is carried out in collaboration with the Social Justice Department of
the Government of Kerala. Two ICDS – anganwadi
workers from each ward of the corporation were selected to conduct the survey.
184 anganwadi workers participated in
the training programme conducted by us on 28th of August 2013
The survey
consists of ward wise head counting of street children and interview of three
street children from every ward of the corporation. The aim of the survey is to
provide information to NGOs, the State
Governments, and other stakeholders for planning and implementing a
well-coordinated program to meet street children’s needs and respect their
basic rights. It also is an opportunity to evaluate the impact of our work for
street children since 1991. A survey was conducted by Don Bosco Veedu society
in 1994 to determine the number of street children and it was found that there
were over 2000 children in the city. Identifying areas where there are street
children is also in view of rescuing and protecting them. Our aim is to create
a street children free Trivandrum with on the spot intervention to rescue and
rehabilitate any child who reaches the streets of Trivandrum.
The survey
is being carried out and we hope to finish the same and begin the tabulation
and publishing work by 20th of this month.
Monday, 29 July 2013
Eye Camp
Free Eye camp at Karimadom Colony, Trivandrum
On 28th
July, 2013 Trivandrum Don Bosco Veedu society conducted a free eye camp jointly
with Chaithanya Sight Foundation at Karimadom colony near Manacaud, Trivandrum.
Over hundred poor people of Karimadom Colony benefitted from the Camp.
The Local
Ward Councilor, Shri. P.S Nair presided over the inaugural function which
started at 9.00. am. Fort S.I, Shri. Sherry inaugurated the camp. Chaithanya
Sight Foundation Coordinator Shri. Joby Kondoor led an awareness campaign on
the importance of eye care. Fr. P.D Thomas, Director, Don Bosco Veedu Society
delivered the welcome address and Mr. Thampi, the medical camp coordinator
proposed the vote of thanks.
The camp
started soon after. As many as 100 people participated in the camp and
underwent check up. The team of seven people led by Dr. Teena, efficiently
examined those who attended the camp. 18 people needed cataract surgery and
over 20 people were prescribed glasses. The State Bank of India and some
socially responsible people sponsored glasses for all those who required it and
the Chithanya Sight Foundation agreed to provide free treatment to all those
with cataract. About 23 people required further checkups at the Chaithanya
hospital.
This was
indeed a rare chance which the poor people of Karimadom received. Those who
required treatment attended the camp and cooperated with the doctors who
conducted the examination. The camp which started at 9.00 am ended at 1.00 pm.
Sunday, 21 July 2013
Stop It!
Why can’t We Stop it?
Seven year old girl child Adithi was denied food and beaten
to death by her father and step mother at Calicut. The case was charge sheeted three days ago. Five
Year old Shafeek from Kattappana, Kerala is at death bed due to continued torture
by his father Shereef and step mother Aleesha for more than a year. At
Palakkad, a 14 year old girl has been repeatedly abused by her step mother’s
relative and her own father. The news of the same has been received today. Two
days ago our CHILDLINE has intervened and rescued a nine year old child from
Nedumangad who has been sexually abused by her step father. In Alakode (Kannur district),
the case of a girl who had been sexually abused for the past six years by her
parents and 5 others has come to light three days ago. She was forced into prostitution for money. In
Trivandrum a girl’s hand was fractured because of violence from father after
drinking, yesterday.
As per statistics from the State Crime Bureau, this year till
March there have been 159 incidents of rape against children, 10 cases of
murder, 33 cases of kidnapping and abduction. Other cases against children are
270. Till March this year, about 480 cases of crime against children have been
recorded in the State of Kerala.
WHY SO? WHY THE MADNESS AGAINST INNOCENT
CHILDREN?
This is the question asked by people everywhere. From our
experience of dealing with cases of children, we have the following observations to make.
1.
Increasing number of family Breakups: Kerala is named the divorce capital of Asia with
highest number of divorces. The ultimate sufferer of a divorce is always the
child. The child has to bear up with the mental tensions created by the
quarreling of parents, will have to adjust to step parents who will often show
discrimination towards children not their own.
2.
Working Parents: In vast number of families both
parents are working to support the family and children often move from tuition –
school – tuition routine without possibility for interaction with the parents.
The parents think that providing provisions and satisfying the material needs of children
are sufficient. There is ever increasing mental tension among children due to
the fact that they are unable to feel the love and care of parents. Such
children’s mental health suffer and they become future misfit parents of the
society.
3.
Deteriorating Mental Health of the Society: Studying the cases of last four
months intervened by CHILDLINE, we find that one of the biggest problems faced by
children in families is due to deteriorating mental health of parents or
siblings. In our State, there are very good hospitals and treatments for all
physical illnesses but the all important mental health issues of people are
often not treated and the repercussion of the same is much more long lasting
and damaging than that of physical sicknesses. Only those with personality
disorders and psychological illnesses can unleash such mindless violence
towards innocent children.
4.
Uncontrolled onslaught of and access to media: There is a generation gap between
parents and children especially in the case of usage of technological devices
such as mobile, T.V and other media accessories (a digital divide). This leads to unwanted usage
of the same without the knowledge of parents especially among the lower middle class and the poorer sections of society. There is bombardment of false information
and sexually explicit content. Access to sexually explicit contents among
children is much more than in the previous generation. From childhood onward
children are exposed to violence and sex in movies, video games etc. Children become
unable to distinguish between real world and the virtual world. When they grow
up this turns into abnormalities. Previous generation’s abused kids are sure to
turn into abusers in the present time. The present children need to be guided
well to form sane future parents.
5.
Alcoholism and Drug Abuse: Kerala society consumes highest amount liquor every year. Drunkards
and Drug addicts cannot behave normally. Domestic violence and victimization of
children take place due to increased alcoholism prevalent in the present Kerala
Society. Children of alcoholic parents follow the example and there are cases of use of alcohol even among upper primary school children.
6.
Laxity in implementation of Laws: India has laws to provide care and protection for
children. Many of these laws are based on international standards and the latest
law to stop sexual violence against children is also good. Our Problem is the
proper implementation of the same, the lack of awareness of the laws among enforcement
and implementing agencies and the fact that the systems provided in the laws
have not been set up. Because of this
the accused often go unpunished and victim does not get immediate justice and justice
delayed is justice denied.
How to overcome this malady? Await some practical suggestions
in the next article!
Sunday, 7 July 2013
Safana – Rescue from Child Marriage
Safana –
Rescue from Child Marriage
On 25th June 2013, Safana (aged 16) called to
CHILDLINE and informed that her marriage was fixed by her parents. She did not
want to marry at such an early age and wanted to continue her studies. She said
that she had not been sent to school in the new academic year. Adv. Sandhya
(human Rights Law Network) also called to CHILDLINE on the same issue. We
contacted Valliathura SI, Mr. Sajin, Fort SI Mr. Prasad and Vanchiyoor police
Mr. Baiju Sankar and came to know that the area was under the jurisdiction of
Vanchiyoor Police.
They informed that the girl had once run away from
home in order to avoid marriage. In order to stop the marriage from happening
as it was fixed for the following day, We had to act fast. Though information
was passed to the local police, station, the CDPO, the the concerned Jama Ath, no
immediate action was being taken as the concerned party were influential. The CHILDLINE
team members visited the girl in her home and despite objections talked with
the child and collected details and a petition in writing.
Next day morning, the Director called Mr.Sreejith
IPS (Top Police Official) and passed the information. He immediately called up the DCP and asked him
to act immediately to stop the marriage. We visited the local police station
and passed all the relevant information and the family details of the child.
Due to the intervention from top officials, action was taken and the marriage
was avoided much to the relief of the child.
It seems that the Kerala society is
marching backwards in laws regarding children. Though there are very clear
provisions to say that an individual is a child until he/she completes the age
of 18, the authorities seem to ignore the same. The recent much criticized circular
by the Government brining down the marriageable age of Muslim women to 16
(Rather Muslim Child!) is indeed a shame to the erudite Kerala Society. It is a
disgrace that NGOs and other socially responsible citizens have to fight with
the Government to make it realize the folly and withdraw the controversial
circular.
The case Safana should remind us that
a child has her rights to education and full growth before she is burdened with
the weight of family life. Often such marriages end with the husband divorcing
the poor girl after a few years and she will have to fend for the children.
Having no education would often make such women to end their lives as they find
it extremely difficult to support the education and other expenses of the family.
Let us fight against child marriage!
Friday, 21 June 2013
Local
Self Government and a one month old infant
A
Supervisor of Manickal Gramapanchayath (LSG) called to our child helpline and passed
the information that a one month old infant was being neglected by parents. Our
team rushed to the spot to make a study of the actual situation. We found that
its mother was mentally ill and the father was a drunkard.
The
situation of the child was pathetic and the family did not have a proper roof.
As the mother was mentally ill, she was carrying the child with one hand precariously
over the fire and often the infant was in danger. There was an elder child who
was 11 years old and having only one pair of torn clothes to wear. The father was
a drunkard and rarely reached home.
Our
team immediately sprang into action. With the help of the local self government
members, the baby, with the mother and the elder child were rescued and brought
to CHILDLINE office. The children were produced before the CWC (Child Welfare
Committee) and shelter was arranged for the baby and mother at Mahilamandiram and the boy at our own
shelter home.
We collected the Transfer Certificate of the
elder child after finding a children’s home in our locality and presently he is
attending school regularly. The mother is being provided with treatment to
bring her back to normalcy. The baby too
is safe now.
The Local Self Government’s involvement to help the family is
indeed a model to be imitated across the state as it is often a rare example.
They were indeed genuinely interested to provide help to the family. They also
offered future support when necessary.
Looking back at the number of cases we have dealt with in the
near past, we are surprised at the number of cases with mental health problems.
It seems that the mental health of the people of Trivandrum is deteriorating.
There is also another realization
that psychiatric disorders among members of the family are a major reason for
family break up across the state. There is absolutely no system to decipher
such issues in the childhood and measures to provide early help to grow up
gracefully with a realization of the problem and measures to take care of it
before entering family life.
Saturday, 15 June 2013
Better Health for Karimadom
With
the onset of monsoon, the Kerala society is on bed due to different illnesses owing
to unhygienic conditions. Trivandrum district has hospitals overflowing with
patients down with dengue and other dangerous illnesses with deaths being reported
every day. Even in the midst of development in the erudite society of Kerala
there is absolute failure in terms of waste management and hygiene. The health of
Karimadom slum dwellers become vulnerable during the rainy season due to the
fact that they do not have good homes and because of sewage entering their
homes when the streets are flooded as their homes are built close to the open sewage
of the city.
On
15th June Trivandrum Don Bosco Veedu Society in collaboration with
Arogya Keralam, and Fort Taluk Hospital conducted an awareness programme on
health care and a half day medical camp.
The
medical camp kicked off with an inaugural ceremony in which Fr. Francis
Karackatt, the Rector of Trivandrum Don Bosco Veedu presided over and Mr. PS
Nair, the ward counselor lighted the lamp. Dr. B Unnikrishnan, the DMO of
Trivandrum District led the awareness classes after the inaugural ceremony.
After the health and hygiene awareness classes, the medical camp started with
three doctors and a paramedic to take care of the patients. Over 150 people
from the colony attended the medical camp, underwent check up and received medication.
The medical camp ended at 1.30 p.m.
Friday, 14 June 2013
TRIVANDRUM RID OF AN EVIL
On the International anti
child labour Day (12th June) Trivandrum District has been declared
as a child labour-free district. Don Bosco Veedu Society had been networking
with the Labour Department, District administration, the Police Department,
Social Welfare Department and CHILDLINE to rid the Trivandrum district of the
evil of child labour as early as 1993. Years of efforts have been rewarded on
12th June, 2013 when the Additional District Magistrate of
Trivandrum District, Shri. V. R. Vinod proclaimed the District as child labour
free district on behalf of the DC of the district Shri. K. N Satheesh.
The function was held at
Government Upper Primary School Vellarada, Trivandrum. The function began at 3. 30 pm. The President
of the function, the Panchyat President of Vellarada, Shri. C. Ashok Kumar, the
Panchayat Standing Committee chairman, Shri. Mangal Das, Shri. P. Sugathan, the
District Labor Officer, the District Coordinator of CHILDLINE, Shri. Maneesh,
the School authorities, parents and children were present at the function.
The Director of Don Bosco
Veedu Society, Fr. P. D Thomas welcomed the gathering and enumerated the
efforts of the Society and other stake holders in eradicating child labour from
the district of Trivandrum. He maintained that the declaration would not mean
that there will be no more child labourers reaching in the district of
Trivandrum but that there would be a system in place to care for the children
who would otherwise lose their childhood and a better education and end up in
the vicious circle of poverty-child-labour-poverty. It also means that each
citizen of the district is bound to act in favour of the child, ready to rescue
and protect children from child labour. He welcomed all the participants to the
joyful occasion of the declaration.
In the presidential address
the panchayat president promised that
he will take necessary actions to see that his panchayat is made into a child friendly panchayat. The ADM of the district declared the district as a child
labour free district. He also lit the lamp and inaugurated the function. In his
speech he appreciated the efforts of the NGOs and Government machinery for the
incessant work to make the district child labour free. He exhorted the children
to stand up for themselves and be ready to take care of their friends who need
assistance to a dignified life and good education.
The declaration was followed
by a pledge to act in favour of child labourers. All other dignitaries also
appreciated the efforts of CHILDLINE to create a child friendly district where
the rights of children are respected. The function ended with words of
gratitude by the District Labour Officer.
ADM's Speech on Anti-Child Labour Day |
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